Relationship Advice by Proxy

[debetesse]

Ok, hivemind, I need you. My little brother (HS Sophomore) is dating a Mormon (he, himself is toward the Left end of UCC. Basically, last door on the Left of Christianity). He really likes her, but is getting irritated with her habit of trying to convert him (she does not realize or does not acknowledge that she is doing so).

I suggested arguing theology with her. He cited her use of my fav. line ever: "pray on it and it will be revealed to you". Oy.

I suggested trying to convert her back (to Wicca, if I'm being snarky), so that it's forced to consciousness. He said that was mean.

I pointed out my lack of boyfriend, and that perhaps I should ask the 'istas. He agreed, so I'm asking.

Please remember that she's young and he actually wants to continue this relationship (although he has expressed reservations in the past wrt LDS's stance on homosexuality. Go Team Tolerance). Any ideas?

Comments

[beathen.livejournal.com]

I don't know my advice is qualified at all, but I do know that if he doesn't point out to her what's frustrating him, it will nag at him continually and will definately cause a strain in their relationship. Ignoring the problem doesn't make it go away.

Yeah, I know this "solution" is easier said than done, but I've also heard that communication is the key to a good relationship; he needs to tell her and work out a compromise somehow.