Friday Five...

Apr. 19th, 2025 06:00 pm
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Who was your first crush?
Either James Garner/ Mariette Hartley or (irony) Christopher Reeve. Sometimes I think I have some weird vengeance demon power that also hurt Christina Applegate because I wanted a body like hers when I was a teenager. Now hers is kind of like mine. Sorry, Christina.
2. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?right on the border of either.

3. What is your favorite non-sexual thing you like to do with the love of your life? It would appear that we exchange a lot of e-mail and private messages. If he is the person I think he is.(For logistics' sake, I hope there's another one,just so I'm beloved in my zip code.)

4. What is one quirky habit your partner does that either annoys you or makes you grin? I'm unpartnered,but if I were not, I suppose I don't understand withdrawing to lick one's wounds.

5. Do you believe in monogamous relationships?
I used to be very about this, despite the fact that I have more of an image of Santa's workshop. Now, I'm not sure, although it wasn't smart to work that out on my dating profile...going from zero to throuple=too fast.

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Happy Saturday

Apr. 19th, 2025 04:20 pm
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Hey folks!

Still alive, still employed! Booyah.

Not loving the job right now: it's never boring, but I had never intended to be a manager of people, and it's really quite stressful. Plus, you know, ::waves vaguely:: the omnishambles of everything is not helping.

But I did take the Tornado out for a 7-mile hike this morning, and she behaved quite well, and we just did some agility practice, and she got six weave poles in a row! Five times! So great. (If you have never seen dog agility, it looks like this, although that's one of the top dogs in the UK, and the Tornado is just beginning her agility journey.)

I call her the Tornado because she is Very. High. Energy. (And tends to knock things over.) I fear she will be one of the dogs barking all the way through the agility course.

Anyway, I'm planning some vacation time this summer, although it feels a little weird to be planning an international trip at this time. I plan to do some judicious app-deletion before coming back through Customs, because that's the world we live in right now.

Currently very excited about both Andor and Murderbot! I've already gotten a tiny bit spoiled for Andor, so I think I will have to lock down my browsing for the next few days. I understand the next Star Wars animated show (after Underworld) is also going to be about Darth Maul, and I'm kind of dubious, but maybe they can do something interesting with it. Myself, I would rather have learned more about Omega's adventures in the Rebellion.

I'm halfway through this month's book for book club, but it's heavy going: Therese Raquin, by Zola. I have liked Zola: he's very grounded, very vivid. Not at all romantic. But these characters are really very unlikeable. I may end up skimming a lot to finish by Tuesday.

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I feel like I'm running out of plotty time-travel fixit fics in which determined heroes (and heroines) go back in time and prevent the errors of their forebearers. I suspect I have not found the right tags on AO3...

In other news, I am listening to Mind the Tags, a charming podcast about fandom, specifically fic-writing fandom. And although the hosts are quite nice, they're so young, and I found myself talking back to them as they fumbled their way through a discussion of the early days of alt.tv.x-files.creative. They tried to talk about show-specific archives and auto-archiving and never even mentioned Ephemeral and Gossamer! There are plenty of us fandom Olds still around!

(Although, how cool is it that Gossamer is still up? WTF.)

Still, it's a very friendly and upbeat podcast full of enthusiasm for fandom and fannish institutions, so I encourage y'all to give it a try if that's the sort of thing you enjoy. I found them because one of the hosts got interviewed by Anne Helen Peterson on her Culture Study podcast, which is also great.

In other other news, I lined up a group of local pals to go see our local minor league baseball team next month! So that will be fun! I like minor-league baseball because it's cheap and low-stakes and you can sit outside and drink beer and eat corn dogs and it doesn't really matter except you're there with a crowd and it's just fun. And all the seats are good.

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Apr. 17th, 2025 12:14 pm
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- Tuesday involved me getting up earlier than usual because I had to go to the office for an in-person working session on the thing I presented last week. We got a lot done and have a plan, yay. I also learned a non-work thing: I am WAY more sensitive to garlic than I thought, especially if it's uncooked. I felt inflammation coming on as I was heading back home in the evening, and woke up on Wednesday feeling AWFUL. When do I get the good side effects of being a vampire? When?

- I am, as usual, doing a lot of window shopping. This pink hat with black bats and moons calls to me, of course, but then I decided I could DIY something even more suited to me. Thanks to AliExpress, I have a pink hat with an even wider brim and a bunch of black lace bat appliques. This coming weekend will involve painting the hat with a darker pink alcohol dye, then attaching the appliques. And maybe wide ribbons (attached to the inside of the crown) so I can tie it on if I want.

- I'm also coveting this sterling silver choker with a giant quartz centerpiece, but it's out of my price range. But it's so pretty!

- I'm thinking of taking a day off from work and persuading the Stroppy One we should go to the zoo. The things that are giving me pause are 1) the Stroppy One is about to start deadline work, and 2) the local zoo is very hilly, and will be challenging for me. (There's a part of me that thinks making the trek to Seattle to go to Woodland Park may be a better idea, especially since I could go visit my beloved red pandas. Our local zoo doesn't have red pandas.)

- All in all, things are meh around here, but I'm trying to find things that make me happy. I hope you peeps are also finding things that bring you joy.



A list of random things

Apr. 14th, 2025 05:22 pm
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- The work presentation that I was working on last week that caused me so much anxiety and stress ended up going really well, and my team has approval to move forward with a dream project. Tomorrow is a big in-office working session about the project with some other stakeholders and my writer who will be driving this, which means I need to trek into Seattle. I'm not thrilled about that part, but there are some people I'm especially looking forward to catching up with.

- Because of all of this last week, I ended up having a two and a half day seesawing panic attack, which I'm still recovering from. I couldn't do my usual way of recovering from such a thing, sleeping for an extended period, because I had social obligations. WHICH WERE AWESOME, but I'm still feeling the aftereffects of last week. In other words, I want to go be a sloth on the couch and then sleep in. 

- I saw my big brother this weekend and got a tarot reading. Nothing like having the powers that be drop anvils on my head that I need to stop listening to the Brain Raccoons. Thanks. Yes, I constantly need the reminder, but DAMN.





Yesterday's Friday Five...

Apr. 12th, 2025 05:37 pm
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oday's questions were brought to you by [livejournal.com profile] silent_r_infork.

1. If you could retroactively erase one TV show from the history of entertainment, which one would you choose?
"Lifestyles Of The Rich and Famous" et al. CEO worship has done a lot of damage.

2. Are you more like your mother or your father?Mostly mom, but when I get obsessed with things, that's more like my dad. Though we don't share obsessions.

3. If you could take a year-long vacation, what would you do?Among other things, go back to the Bay Area again.

4. Can you think of a reason not to answer this question? I'd say "Loose Lips sink ships," But I already feel like the oldest person who uses one of these accounts, anyway.(Not that I remember that--I just had grandparents.)

5. What's the nicest thing you've ever done for someone?I don't know...I try to share what I have and stuff like that, but sometimes I give myself too much credit for not doing the bitchiest things that float through my head sometimes...not sure I deserve those points.

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Things I MIght Tell Kristi Noem...

Apr. 10th, 2025 01:59 pm
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1. I hate that ad SO GODDAMN much. But thanks for the reminders of important things:

a. That suddenly becoming conventionally attractive and symnetrical wouldn't suddenly fix all the demons in my head.(Yes, Mom, I know I'm beautiful for about five minutes a year, after great effort and fiddling. Big whoop...I'm not a troll, but neither is my best day what I really look like, and they don't get me anything but photos I can't live up to, anyway.)

2. we can't count on women to always change things for the better, much less bring some kind of compassionate wellspring, etc. This pisses me off. part of me would love to make up for everything I've missed by being some kind of giant separatist.But I can't, because of bitches like you, Kristi Noem.

3.Based on even a cursory understanding of the US's role in Latin America(albeit undertaken while learning a second language, she noted modestly) we owe them, not the other way around. (Also, I love cherries so much that if I were Madam President, all cherry pickers would have instant protected status. their work is vital.
4. No healthy society sucks up to its president that much. Also, stop wasting our money.

5. Yes, threats make living here seem totally appealing.
6. You killed a puppy and bragged about it to seem like a bad ass that Makes The Tough Choices, you crazy ghoul.
7. The Indians won't let you on the reservations in SD.(I wish Indians had done that more. Not sure where I fit in that world, either, but it might be better than this one, anyway.)

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